Who doesn’t want the secret to finding love in their lives?

This is a topic that we get asked about a lot.

Here is a secret that you may not have taken to heart yet….  finding love starts with loving yourself.  I know, it sounds so easy and trivial.  But it isn’t.  It is real, it is necessary and you “have to act now” as they say in the infomercials.

Loving you will help to get others into your life that will love you too.  It’s true.  And acting now is important.  It will work, but you do have to act now….

I love the movie “Under the Tuscan Sun” with Diane Lane.  By far one of my favorites.

Here are the main messages I got from this movie:

1. 1. Life is full of ups and downs – of course
      
      
   2. You meet someone that you are sure must be the “one” … but then it doesn’t work out… it can seem devastating so you get down.  Why did this happen?
      
      
   3. At the end of your bad experiences, you are reminded by someone that travelled with you through this journey that all you had wished for in the beginning has actually been given to you in forms you haven’t “seen” yet….  

She had wished for family and got it via her friend and her baby, she had wished for love and instead of the fairytale Prince she lamented on, he was the man that showed up to her home later that she was more suited for.  
Her dream life was actually right in front of her and all she had to do was to see it and be grateful for it.  And there it was:  her happy ending.

Great movie, rich with messages and tales of journeys with happy endings that are real.

This gets back to the whole concept of being grateful for what is around you and living in the moment.  It works people… it really works!

The WORLD is our family and our real love.  You don’t have to limit yourself in your reach of love out there.  Remember this … it is a gift.

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